In today's run-of-the-mill life, parents are unable to provide a good, happy, and loving environment to their children. Due to this, the child feels an emptiness despite having everything such as mobiles, toys. The reason is that both the parents are working.
It is not wrong to have both parents working. In today's inflationary life and to face new challenges every day in the life, both the parents have to work to run the household. But in the pursuit of work, most of the parents start ignoring what the mind of a small child wants?
A child has nothing to do with the worldliness of the world. He just wants to spend time with his parents and get their love. Many types of frustrations develop in the child due to not being able to support the parents at the time of need. He also becomes irritable, angry, and arrogant. Due to this frustration, at one point in time, he also starts treating his own parents with indecency. Because of which many times parents become sad and upset. In this sadness and trouble, they start finding faults within themselves.
So today we are going to tell you the way to avoid these problems. How can we balance our work with our children and give proper upbringing, care, and environment around them to make them peaceful and healthy?
Make time for the kids
It is equally important for parents to give time to the child just as they do or want to do the rest of their work on time. In your busy life, try to take some time out for children to know about their day-to-day routine, school, and their needs and problems. By doing this, mutual understanding and communication between parents and children is strengthened. Children never feel lonely. There is an increase in the love and trust of the parents in the mind of the children.
Instead of scolding or hitting children, explain to them with love
Mistakes happen to every human being. We grow up as a child by making mistakes. If a child makes a mistake or misbehavior, we should pay attention to lovingly explain them rather than scold them. Where we feel that more scolding is needed. For the same reason scold otherwise avoid scolding or hitting the children. Due to excessive scolding, the child becomes irritable and angry. Later on, that child will either answer your words in reverse or will feel suffocated inside. In both cases, there is a bad effect on the child's childhood and mind. On explaining with the same love, he tries to understand the matter and also takes care of him so that this mistake does not happen again.
Never underestimate baby
Never make the mistake of underestimating the good work done by children by their own efforts. Always encourage them for this. If possible help them to do better.
Do not compare the child to another
Never compare a child to another child. Whether that comparison is in the field of studies, sports, looks or beauty. Especially parents should keep in mind that never compare the child with his own siblings or cousins, cousins, siblings. By doing this, hatred and inferiority complex are born in their mind towards the other child or their own siblings. Which leaves a very deep impact on the child's mind. Remember that the frustration that settles in the child's mind becomes very difficult to remove. So don't compare with anyone. Don't let them get frustrated. Simultaneously, avoid scolding them in crowds or among guests. Try to explain their mistake in private.
Encourage you to do new things
If the child does something out-of-the-box or does something new, then never forbid them. Praise them for their new work. If he tries to do something new, then his mental and intellectual capacity develops. They have the power to think and understand. This quality of his can lead him on the path of progress later on. Today there are many such examples in our society who have paved the way for development with their brand new work.
Increase self-confidence in children
When children start growing up slowly, then allow them to do small tasks according to their age. Gradually, the confidence in doing work on their own starts increasing. With increased self-confidence, they try to do things on their own and become self-reliant.
Don't stop too much
Do not restrain the child excessively. Due to excessive inhibition, the child's mental development does not take place. Due to this, they are afraid to do even the smallest tasks. Children sit unnecessarily thinking that in doing this work, the parents of the household should not become very angry.
Keep child's health paramount
Mother and father should always give importance to the health of the child above everything else. The immunity power of children is much less than that of adults. Therefore, special attention should be given to them in their minor illness. Due to a little distraction or not doing the first aid properly, the chances of their disease progressing in the future increase.
Give children a happy environment
Children who grow up in a happy environment. There is always a smile on his face. They want to make every moment entertainment. In contrast, children whose home environment is stressful and full of complaints grow up. Since childhood, they have had shortcomings and rude behavior towards the family. Therefore, parents should always try to resolve mutual misunderstandings or thoughts by sitting together. Do not create unnecessary noise in the house. Knowingly or unknowingly, its worst effect falls on the children of the house. Therefore, keep the atmosphere of the house pleasant.
Motivate children to work hard
Give every facility to the child as per their need. which they need. At the same time, make a habit of working hard in them as well. Whether this hard work is related to studies, to do their own work or to helping any member in the house. Keep inspiring them to work hard from time to time. They should be taught that everything is achieved through hard work. Success achieved through hard work always stays with us. This habit of working hard will pave the way for success in future.